Let it go vs Let it be

The problem with the young generation nowadays is they listen to Frozen's Let It Go instead of Beatles' Let It Be.
其实
长越大,越觉得 很多很多事 不是说你要做个了断就可以。
With time I realize its not whether or not we should end things the way we wanted when we have some bad blood. Its actually, just really letting it be. There is no use forcing things to show up the way you stubbornly want them to be because at the end, trust me you won't be happy anyway. I think we all love too hard sometimes. And when we do, when it all comes down to down right ugly we cannot accept. We hate as hard as we love. I believe everyone have had similar experience.
And then we force ourselves to let go, to give up, and to let it slip away.
But really, all you need to do is just let it be. There are so many things that you cannot control in life and that includes people and relationship. The only thing you can control is yourself. Time ease all - and at the end you will know if eventually things turn out well.
So why rush into things? Just let them be. And while that happens, just keep your head up, and take good care of yourself.